Child custody is one of the most contentious issues after a divorce. Even when both parties are willing to collaborate and come up with a plan that will protect the needs of the children, issues could arise that complicate the process and even lead to litigation. Preparing for mediation requires the help of a mediator child custody. They will walk you through specific plans and help you identify deal breakers. The following 3 tips will help you prepare for a child custody mediation process:
Come up with a sample of Custody Agreements and Schedules
Make a list of your concerns and know whether you want joint or full custody. If you prefer the former, come up with a sample parental schedule of when the children will be with you or with the other parent. Take into account the kid’s schedules, holidays, and vacations. Though the court might not award you exactly what you want, it will act as a starting point. Keep an open mind as the agreement could be modified to what works for both of you and most importantly, your children.Gather Evidence
If you prefer primary custody of the children, you will be required to provide evidence that proves the children are not safe with the other parent. Rather than trying to pass your point across by being emotional, gather factual and solid evidence to support your claim. Outbursts of anger could be considered hostile or threatening and work against you. Such could include police reports documenting abuse or drug use. Gather as much evidence as you can as the more it is, the higher the chance of the case being ruled in your favor.Keep your Focus on the Children’s Interest
Child custody cases are often emotional and confrontational. Rather than the usual back and forth, be calm, rational, and keep your focus on the children’s best interests. If you have a concern about any issue such as their emotional well-being or their performance is poor as a result of the divorce, discuss this with your attorney or propose a practical solution.David Pedrazas is a family law attorney that has been voted among the Top 10 Attorneys in Salt Lake City by the National Academy of Family Law. His firm offers free case evaluations and walks you through the divorce, child custody, and the ensuing mediation process.
Author Statement:
David Pedrazas is a premier divorce and family law attorney in Salt Lake City, Utah. He graduated from the University of Utah Law School in 1997, and has been practicing for over 14 years in the areas of divorce, child support, child custody, paternity, alimony, property division, and parent time.
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