What Happens In Mediation for Custody?

No two marriages are similar, and so it also follows that no two divorces will be alike.
Occasionally, after a divorce, specific issues such as child custody, property, and support remain unresolved. Some spouses opt to hire a mediator to help in resolving their disagreements. It's prudent to consult an experienced family lawyer during mediation for child custody. But that is not all; you have to be prepared. How? Here are a few important things you should know.

How to Prepare for Mediation

Request

First, consider whether you are interested in mediating with your partner. Often, an individual is ordinarily free to accept or reject a mediation request unless a judge orders them to take part in mediation. It’s advisable to approve a mediation request if you believe that it will solve differences between you and your spouse.

Response

After making up your mind about the mediation request, it's vital to inform your ex in writing. If you are interested, you can show the written response to a judge in court to prove your willingness to cooperate with your partner.
If you decline mediation, you may have to give valid reasons. Mediation shows that you are cooperative. In some states; parents can submit their requests for mediation through the court. Just contact a nearby court and make a direct response to a mediation request.

Consequences of Failing to Cooperate

If a judge orders you to take part in mediation, they expect you to attend at least one session. If you violate a court order, you may be held in contempt.
No precise ramifications exist if you fail to participate in mediation not ordered by a court of law. Your ex may accuse you of not cooperating in court. However, both parents are expected to agree to take part in mediation for child custody.

Steps in Mediation for Child Custody

Some states require both parents to complete the mediation process for a judge to issue court orders. It involves the following steps:

• Initial meeting: When attending a mediation session, it's wise to be willing to listen to other parties. In a typical custody mediation, you are not expected to cause fights. Instead, create an excellent custody plan that is appropriate for your child's interests. It’s worth noting that, the mediator can't offer legal advice since they don't represent you.
• Identify custody-related issues: A genuine mediator will determine fundamental child custody problems that need to be resolved. Often, mediators prioritize the issue when categorizing.
• Solutions: You can offer possible solutions to existing child custody differences.
• Custody agreement: It's critical to prepare a child custody arrangement after resolving various custody-related issues. It is a legal contract which reflects critical points in your custody arrangement.

Are you contemplating on mediation for child custody in Salt Lake City, Utah? The Law Office of David Pedrazas, PLLC is a renowned law firm serving the Salt Lake area residents.  We have over 15 years of experience in family law. Contact us via 801-263-7078 for a free case evaluation.


About the Author:
David Pedrazas is a premier divorce and family law attorney in Salt Lake City, Utah. He graduated from the University of Utah Law School in 1997 and has been practicing for over 14 years in the areas of divorce, child support, child custody, paternity, alimony, property division, and parent time.


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